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"Many
Christian Leaders have found their experience
in leadership frustrating at best and painful
at worst. They began with a dream only to see
it rejected or dismissed by fellow Christians.
They believe that their dream or calling is from
God, but for some unknown reason it has ended
up on the cutting room floor of the
church. They conclude that the church rejected
them, God rejected them, they totally missed
God, or a combination of all of the above.
It doesnt make sense. So they return to
a life without dreams, but with a nagging question
that follows them around like a pet demanding
to be fed: What went wrong? Their
life seems to personify the proverb that says,
Hope deferred makes the heart sick.
The Ministry challenge can be likened to that
of being a parent. Most of us had the physical
ability to procreate at a very young age. However,
that ability had nothing to do with whether or
not we would be good parents. The outcome of being
a good parent has to do with a number of critical
factors that are completely divorced from
the ability to procreate. Be encouraged! You were
probably called to be a leader but for numerous
reasons (critical factors) you were never able
to see your dream comes to pass.
Its not late for you! As you read the 10
Critical Factors we encourage you to allow
the Lord to speak to your heart. If this is something
you have been looking for, give us a call!
1. The Freedom To Live Out Your Dreams Factor:
Many times believers end up living out someone
elses dream instead of their own. They start
out young, highly creative and with a desire to
do something that has merit; however, their church
has another position that needs to be filled.
They are persuaded to take this position for all
the right reasons, but eventually they become
frustrated and either begin to challenge the status
quo or fade off into the sunset. Neither of these
things needs to happen. The solution is to help
people live out their God-given dreams by igniting
their creative abilities, showing them how to
tap in to what God has written on their heart
and as a church, providing or finding relevant
training for them. If this sounds like you, you
need to check us out!
2. The Congruent Vision Factor:
This can seem in conflict with factor #1 but it
isnt. For example, if it was my dream to
be a part of a liturgical church, and the church
that I was considering was not liturgical, I need
to recognize that this isnt going to work.
Many church conflicts have come by trying to merge
two types of vision. The outcome is always pain
and conflict. Both visions can be valid, just
not in the same church. Everyone needs to recognize
this reality and make loving decisions accordingly.
It is ok to move to a church that is more open
and in line with your dream. I have seen many
dreams die on the seat of a pew because the person
didnt feel they had the freedom to move
on. If we try to hold you back that would be controlling
and selfish. We would be asking you to give up
your dreams and vision for ours. We promise you,
we will never try and hold you back!
3. The Functional Leadership Factor:
The objective at all levels is to lead without
controlling. This is done through training, exampling,
and witness. Our approach to leadership
is quite different from what most people have
experienced.
A. First, we do not believe in the egalitarian
(everyone is the same) approach that grew out
of the rebellion of the 1960s. Many people,
myself included, have tried this idea, and it
simply doesnt work. We believe that God
does gift and call some
people to lead, train, and equip people in the
church. Many New Testament scriptures bear this
out. Eph. 4:11-15 is the most commonly quoted
one. Quality leaders must view leadership as both
a calling and a responsibility. This new breed
of leader doesnt lead by control, rather
by training and modeling (living the life).
B. If you seek advice from one of our leaders,
you may be surprised with his/her response. Most
of the time, the answer comes in the form of a
question for you to work out in your own heart
(see #4). We have a strong belief that people
can hear God for themselves and we will do all
we can to foster that process.
C. Many good leadership teams begin to break
down when they judge, envy, and compete with each
other. We will teach you how to be on guard and
recognize this human proclivity.
D. Our promise to you is that we will do all
we can to help you discover and live out your
dreams as God has planted them in your heart.
4. The Individual Responsibility Factor:
You are responsible for you and I am responsible
for me. Healthy churches make this distinction
clear. When this distinction isnt clear
the result is often a religious codependency as
well as a consignment to immaturity. We are about
helping you establish your heart in a Biblical
sense of self worth. When this begins to happen
people will look to Jesus, not to others for value
and worth. Many have experienced him pouring value
and worth into their hearts for the first time.
We have spared no expense, in order to get the
tools into your hands that will allow you to live
the Christian life in a way that you have only
dreamed about. In the end though, it comes down
to each person answering the question: Will I
allow the Lord to work in my heart the way he
wants to? If your answer is yes, hang on because
youre in for a ride that you didnt
think was possible.
5. The Believing Heart Factor:
Most Western believers think that if they know
something with their mind, they know it. For the
New Testament believer, knowing something intellectually
wasnt enough. To know it, they
had to experience it emotionally and believe it
in their heart. Few Christians know how to let
go of believed lies and experience truth at this
level. This is why most Christians experience
so little functional growth after they get saved.
Proverbs 4:23 says, Above all else, guard
your heart, for out of it flows the issues of
life. Proverbs 17:20 says, A froward
heart findeth no good thing. Most of us
havent drawn a distinction between the truth
that our minds believe and the lies that our heart
believes. Abraham was able to receive the promises
of God when he persuaded his heart
to believe God for the promises. We are dedicated
to giving you the tools to do the same. Numerous
people have told us that they were amazed at how
many of their questions about past frustrations
were answered as we introduced this concept. You
can be moved from condemnation and frustration
to a place of dignity, worth, and hope!
6. Complete Confidence In The Finished Work Of
Jesus Factor:
This sounds so simple but if you have been a Christian
for a while you have probably discovered that
it isnt that easy. Most of us will acknowledge
this truth with our mind but what we live out
of our heart is the just the opposite. We do believe
that Jesus completed the work for our salvation.
However, we struggle to believe it at a heart
level. This is because we do not experience it
in our daily walk with God. It is exciting to
see people finally live in the victory that Jesus
has provided for them. This change is effortless,
and we are hearing comments like I have
been born again, again and, from a lady
who had been a Christian for 64 years, I
have waited my whole life for this message.
We have allowed religion, tradition, and lies
to be written on the tablets of our hearts.
God is interested in changing all this for you!
7. The Safe Place Factor:
As a Church we must be a Safe Place
for people. The metaphor that best describes a
healthy church is that of a healthy family. Families
are supposed to be safe and full of acceptance
of one another. People arent valued in a
family by what they do but rather by simply being
a part of the family. Families are based on relationships
that are born out of an atmosphere of realness
and safety. We are committed to being such a safe
place, that people find it perfectly normal to
be open and honest about their struggles in life.
They dont have to hide anymore. Because
of what they have seen modeled before them, they
no longer fear being judged or rejected. They
do not fear being condemned even if their own
heart condemns them. No matter what happens, they
know that they can come here and experience being
loved and accepted. Few people have ever changed
through rejection. People change through being
loved and accepted. Maybe thats why the
Bible says the kindness of God leads to
repentance. It is so freeing to know that
you are accepted for being yourself, rather than
an image that you have created that fits the accepted
behavior model.
8. Being Established In The Love of God
Factor:
Scriptures tell us that His perfect love drives
out all fear. When people experience an abiding
sense of the love of God flowing through their
hearts they cant be moved. Nothing in life
compares to the safety and security of this experience.
One of our primary goals is to move people from
a place of condemnation, fear, and frustration
to a place where they experience Gods love
flowing through their hearts. No matter what circumstances
you face in life, you can be so confident in your
relationship with Jesus that you will have no
need to look elsewhere for answers. That is the
way the Christian life is supposed to be. Let
us help you live it!
9. The Re-Igniting of GRACE, PEACE, and Righteousness,
Factor:
To most people these are terms that have little
to do with daily living. A few years ago I would
have thought the same thing. Since then, I have
discovered that these terms are loaded with power
and meaning and are the foundations to everything
we believe.
Grace - Man has never had the ability to free
himself from the power of sin. That is why Jesus
came. Moses brought truth but Jesus brought grace
and truth (John 1:17). Grace is the power God
supplies for permanent change in our life. It
is supernatural and is released when we take God
at His word. Grace is almost foreign to many Christians.
This is because the scriptures say that Grace
works through Righteousness (Rom. 4:21). Since
most of us dont truly believe that we are
righteous, we seldom experience the Grace of God
in our lives. We may believe it with our head
but we dont experience it in our heart.
Romans 5:19 says that Righteousness is a free
gift. We may start out believing we are righteous
but at some point we get off track and move away
from Grace. One of the chief reasons we dont
believe we are righteous is because we have not
experienced the Gospel of Peace. At a heart level
most of us believe that God is mad or disappointed
with us. Most of us believe that he cant
completely bless us because we have failed him
in some way. The truth is; He loves us unconditionally,
and has made peace with us through the cross.
Jesus did this by taking 100% of Gods anger
and wrath on himself for every sin we have committed
or will ever commit. Isaiah asks in the 53rd chapter,
Who has believed our message? I will
tell you who has believed it: Almost no one! One
of our chief goals is to see people established
in righteousness and experiencing the love and
power of God in their heart. This only happens
when people find and experience the God who loves
them unconditionally. We desire above all things
to help bring you into this kind of relationship
with God.
10. Changing The Way People See God Factor:
God is the most lied about person in the Universe!
People make him responsible for nearly every negative
thing that happens in their life. Well meaning
people tell us God is testing you
or He is allowing the devil to attack you
at this time. We hear so much of this junk
it is a wonder that any of us are still sane.
We see the promises outlined in scripture but
in our heart we believe that we are unable to
live them out. Add to this, the psychological
beating we take from our culture and its no wonder
Evangelical Christians are continually at the
bottom of the self worth chart. As a group, we
have no trouble believing what is wrong with us,
but we have a major hurdle when it comes to believing
what is right with us. Many of us believe in our
heart that God is disappointed or mad at us. Many
sincere Christians have hinted that God is the
source of our pain and suffering. In the end we
believe this junk and our heart condemns
us. This church is deeply committed to changing
the way people see God! We want you to experience
Him the way He is, not the way someone told you
He is. He has never brought pain and suffering
into your life. He doesnt test you to see
what you are made of. He does not turn the devil
loose on you. He is for you and not against you.
He has nothing but good things for you. He hates
to see you in pain and desires for you to see
Him as the loving father that He is. He wants
a loving relationship with you many times more
than what you want from Him. We take a very Biblical
approach to help you turn all this around. We
will assist you to establish your heart in the
love of God and He will pour value and worth into
your heart. As you grow, you will find yourself
not believing the lies anymore and will start
discovering what God really thinks of you. As
this happens you will gain a unique confidence
because it will be based on what you are experiencing
from Him and not what anyone says. You can be
the person in God that you only dreamed about!!
More and more people are telling us that Christianity
is no longer working for them. They are tired,
worn out, and burned out. Many believe that it
is too late for them and they feel lost in the
maze of religion. They attend conferences, seminars,
retreats, etc., hoping that this one will be different.
After a week or two they are back to being the
same person they were before the event. This is
frustrating because they feel like failures and
conclude that they must be doing something wrong.
Many of us know this from personal experience.
We mistakenly thought, It must just be me.
After all, most other Christians are living happy
effective lives for Christ
arent they?
Unfortunately, what should be the normal
Christian life is not the typical
Christian life.
We are giving you one of the greatest opportunities
to make your life count that you will ever find
in a church. Our approach is unique, in that it
is free from Control, politics and the buddy
system. We disciple all men and women to
fulfill their dreams and make their life count.
God can use you! He qualified you and empowered
you through the Lord Jesus. It is our job to equip
you. If you want to be a part of something that
gives you freedom, opportunity and Bible-based
training you\'re at the right place!
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